This site is about women’s experiences with Richard Paul Ruland, a self-proclaimed paranormal investigator. If you are here about any other Richard P. Ruland, Richard Paul Ruland, Ricky Ruland, etc., then I encourage you to examine the provided photos to ensure this is the correct one.

We’re glad you found this site, though we are certain he will wish you hadn’t! The views, opinions, and experiences expressed at, or through, this site are those of the individual authors who have received no compensation for their contributions, nor were they coerced into contributing.

Why am I HERE?

There are a few reasons you may have landed here. Maybe you heard about Lori’s story on TikTok or Ex-Wives Undercover (Season 6’s four-part Ghosted especially!). Perhaps you are doing a gentle dive or research while waiting on a background check for personal, romantic or professional reasons. Maybe this is your way of performing said background check. Either way, we’re glad you are here!

What we know about RPR.

Richard Paul Ruland was born in Brooklyn, New York on June 15, 1963 and grew up on Long Island. Some of the job experiences he claims includes managing a KFC, bodyguard to the stars (Wynonna Judd, Luke Bryan, etc.), Breezy Point police officer, car salesman, club bouncer, paramedic, card processor sales manager, and paranormal investigator. These are just a few careers he lays claim to having.

What’s your beef with Richard?

Our mission is to educate and warn future victims against him and this type of behavior in general. Our goal is to raise awareness of how he and other con artists take advantage of their marks. These behaviors can also apply to women con artists! We are not “male bashing” or profiling! In this case the con artists is male (Richard) and the marks are women.